Let me start by saying I’m quite new to the site. I’ve always loved chat rooms and specifically the intrest people have shown in myself, answering questions, queries regarding my lifestyle. I’m a vain lady so yes I love talking about my favourite topic….. “Me”.
I was recommended to try this site as it was more aligned to the things I chat about and with a bigger pool of people who’d want to know or quiz me.
But……. Since being on this site I’m quite shocked by my findings maybe I need to separate real life from chat rooms but I believe there’s certainly a shift and it’s visibly noticeable especially in my eyes.
I’ll explain. When I started my relationship with my boyfriend it raised eyebrows, interracial couples wasn’t so common, it was taboo, it turned heads, attracted insults. You understand. There was a few niché clubs in London, popular for interracial dating and a very sexy fashion that went hand in hand. As the years have gone on everything has grown and so has acceptance. And with that said I believe white boys have moved the fetish from being all about us ladies to more about them.
I’ll explain. The curiosity of white boys has moved from the visual of sex with a black man to public dating, to how we dress, to the kids we have. I think white boys have become more aligned to making it about them and not so much about your wife, girlfriends or daughters. The fantasy of white boys being left out or forgotten by us ladies for a real man has almost turned white boys away from the original fetish of white women with a real man. There’s more talk in chat about white boys wearing a dicklet cage than there is about how I dress for my boyfriend.
Am I wrong? Do I sound bitter? I was under the impression it was us ladies calling the shots, having the focus. Me personally I’m shocked that so many white boys wouldn’t be beside themselves to ask a few questions, get my point of view. Most the conversations are about white boys being feminized or playing a bigger role in a relationship. There’s more adulation for a black man almost infatuation. Compared to us ladies who date a black man! Have I got it wrong id love to know people’s thoughts.????
I was recommended to try this site as it was more aligned to the things I chat about and with a bigger pool of people who’d want to know or quiz me.
But……. Since being on this site I’m quite shocked by my findings maybe I need to separate real life from chat rooms but I believe there’s certainly a shift and it’s visibly noticeable especially in my eyes.
I’ll explain. When I started my relationship with my boyfriend it raised eyebrows, interracial couples wasn’t so common, it was taboo, it turned heads, attracted insults. You understand. There was a few niché clubs in London, popular for interracial dating and a very sexy fashion that went hand in hand. As the years have gone on everything has grown and so has acceptance. And with that said I believe white boys have moved the fetish from being all about us ladies to more about them.
I’ll explain. The curiosity of white boys has moved from the visual of sex with a black man to public dating, to how we dress, to the kids we have. I think white boys have become more aligned to making it about them and not so much about your wife, girlfriends or daughters. The fantasy of white boys being left out or forgotten by us ladies for a real man has almost turned white boys away from the original fetish of white women with a real man. There’s more talk in chat about white boys wearing a dicklet cage than there is about how I dress for my boyfriend.
Am I wrong? Do I sound bitter? I was under the impression it was us ladies calling the shots, having the focus. Me personally I’m shocked that so many white boys wouldn’t be beside themselves to ask a few questions, get my point of view. Most the conversations are about white boys being feminized or playing a bigger role in a relationship. There’s more adulation for a black man almost infatuation. Compared to us ladies who date a black man! Have I got it wrong id love to know people’s thoughts.????
